Arrival Day

11/15/12 39 weeks ago today, we had no idea whether you existed. Today, as we arrive at Kaiser in Irvine, I carry my 39 inch belly weighing 55 pounds with me, while your daddy lugs two travel size luggages and a gym bag stuffed with two pillows and a blanket,  to check ourselves into Labor and Delivery scheduled for 6:00AM.  We arrive forty five minutes past our check-in time and wait an extra ten minutes to get admitted into our room by a nurse.  From this point forward, our lives will  change forever.   Prepared with questions and knowledge, nurses and doctors enter our room where I'm hooked up to an intravenous  while your daddy starts on a conversation about our current  political issues. I immediately realize this  his  funny way of breaking the ice to make me feel more comfortable while we prepare for our momentous experience that will occur in the operating room around 9:35am.  My thoughts are clear and calm, capturing only images of your face and thinking of only the wonderful things that will happen in the next couple of hours.   After  taking a quick bathroom break to empty my bladder and right before the clock strikes 9am, nurse Jackie walks along side me down a long hallway to a room where you will be delivered.  Daddy waits by himself behind two big doors leading to this room, wearing his head-to-toe white scrub. A twenty-minute preparation time in this room containing at least 6 doctors and nurses whose priority is to deliver you safely, is twenty minutes too long for your daddy to handle as nervousness builds up inside of him.  With a few minutes to spare before your arrival, your daddy enters the room with sweaty palms ready to greet you when  you enter this world.  At 10:06am, a soft cry exerts from your tiny mouth, you present yourself with great ease and confidence. Weighing in at 8lbs and 3oz and 21 inches long, you are one healthy baby and the connection between us has already taken place.  A doctor holds you upside down hanging from your two strong feet, your daddy and I get a quick glimpse of you behind a blue curtain, seeing only your bloody body and faint facial features. Voices from all the doctors and nurses echoing the room with comments about your beautiful eyes.  My exhaustion has subsided and a burst of energy comes over me as I become more anxious to see your face and hold you close to me.  Laying quietly on your daddy's bare chest, you share with him your first skin-to-skin experience that will strengthen your bond with one another, a bond that can never be taken from you.   You are everything we have prayed for and your daddy and I are two very proud parents.  We look forward to sharing our lives with you.  You have already affected us in ways words can never describe. We love you with everything we have. 

Check list

10/15/12 I never believed in preparing too early as I didn't want to be too excited too soon.  But as your arrival day is approaching, I feel more confident and have a legitamit reason to be excited.  With almost five weeks to go and an energy level of a 90-year-old, our long check-off list remains unfulfilled, leaving more to be checked off than checked.  Today I'm reminded my your powerful kicks that I should get some things checked off.  Nowadays, nothing beats me up more than extreme hot weather and since the local forecast for the city of Fountain Valley is 84 degrees, my mom and I head out to Babies R Us earlier than usual -9:20am.  Being the first customers at the store, gives us plenty of room to browse and time to decide, we make our way down every single aisle.  Scheming through all the necessities from  feeding bibs and bottles  to accessories like breast feeding pillow and burping towel, reading every label and fine prints.  Little by little, we fill up the cart with baby blankets, bibs, bed time wraps, and other things we absolutely need.  Before the temperature increases to the point of discomfort for me, we head to one more store followed by lunch before heading home.  Although only a few items were checked off the list, we feel accomplished and look forward to checking off a few more next week. 

Jewel's cocktail shower

11/4/12 Daylight saving time ends today, but the extra hour of sleep will be the perfect kick start to our new family routine with your birth drawing near. At 88 degrees, clear sky and sunny, 3 Thirty 3's view of Newport Harbor is a dream backdrop for a baby shower hosted by Angie Gately  and Lindsey Carter.

Clusters of pink and mylar printed helium balloons hung against the seamless glass window over looking the harbor,  lemon and white cream cheese frosting cupcakes from Susie's artistically placed on the table top, garnished  with hand made mini gardens add a nice touch to this unconventional cocktail baby shower.  Along with mimosas and cocktails, my favorite guys and gals  arrive to celebrate your upcoming debut. This is one baby shower most people want but very few will ever experience. 

 Just a week and a half ago, as I was driving away from my weekly appointment with Marie De La Torre, the midwife at Kaiser, I learned that you were breech and a possibility of a C-Section may have to take place.  The news was shocking and took me for a surprise.  I was disappointed and scared as this is not in our birthing plan. Two hours a day, three day a weeks of Child Birth Classes at Hoag Hospital and we still managed to ignore all information related to cesarean section. It was never an option for us. I had this vivid image of having you naturally with the help of epidural.  However, the long drive home encouraged me to think about you and how you have taken such good care of me throughout this journey.  Because of this, I knew that you must know what is best for me.  And so I trust you with all my heart.

Today, as we celebrate you and your safe arrival into our lives, I have embraced this surgical procedure and trust that everything is going to go the way that it should. The happiness and well wishes from our close friends have brought me to a place of contentment and fearlessness.  Now it's just a few days away and I just cannot wait. 

 Baby Jewels, I am ready to welcome you into this world and give you the gentle protection and support that you've been giving me.  Thanks to you the new found  sense of confidence and power that I have recently tacked on is unlike anything I've ever experienced.  See you soon!! 

35 weeks

Today is Thursday and it marks your 35th week of gestation.  It is one of the hottest days of the week, 82 degrees, yet the sun is still hidden from the dreary sky and occasional gust of wind and extreme humidity makes it feel as if a storm is on its way.  The month of October has its unusual perks, but it doesn't stop us from accomplishing goals we have set out to do. 

 With the presidential debates between Mitt Romey and Barack Obama in the process, the filming of The Hang Over 3 in Newport beach happening this weekend,  and the Cardinals in the running for a  possible win of the World Series for the second time, your daddy and I remain focused, making our house into a home.  Just five weeks from now, we will no longer be living as husband and wife, but as a family.  Your daddy's first attempt at plumbing, the installation of a brand new faucet set from Kohler, is slowly coming to completion. He is determined to make it perfect, and for that I am so proud. Although our new floor installation had a few dilemmas, our trusted contractor, Ka is over at our house right now fixing it.

As October comes to a close, our seemingly continuous tasks will too and we know that one day soon we can all congregate on the couch, cuddle, and watch a funny movie together as a family.  

Almost 5 weeks left

10/15/12 I never believed in preparing too early as I didn't want to be too excited too soon.  But as your arrival day is approaching, I feel more confident and have a legitimate reason to be excited.  With almost five weeks to go and an energy level of a 90-year-old, our long check-off list remains unfulfilled, leaving more to be checked off than checked.

Today I'm reminded my your powerful kicks that I should get some things checked off.  Nowadays, nothing beats me up more than extreme hot weather and since the local forecast for the city of Fountain Valley is 84 degrees, my mom and I head out to Babies R Us earlier than usual -9:20am.  Being the first customers at the store, gives us plenty of room to browse and time to decide, we make our way down every single aisle.  Scheming through all the necessities from  feeding bibs and bottles  to accessories like breast feeding pillow and burping towel while reading every label and fine prints.  Little by little, we fill up the cart with baby blankets, bibs, bed time wraps, and other things we absolutely need.  Before the temperature increases to the point of discomfort for me, we head to one more store followed by lunch before heading home.

Although only a few items were checked off the list today, we feel accomplished and look forward to checking off a few more next week. 

Juliette

Today I pay more attention to your name, what it will be, what it means and how it can shape your character.  Of course a name is merely a name and no studies have shown that it will determine how one will turn out.  But in the unlikely case that it can influence the development your character, we hope to discover a name that will be equivalent to who you will become. 

From Scarlett to Kelly to Lauren, the only name that has since captured my love is Juliette. With no correlation to Shakespeare's  romantic novel Romeo and Juliet, I fell in love with it for reasons I hope you will embrace.  

To me, the name Juliette illustrates a woman with soft physical features and elegant by nature.  The  romantic sounding of the name immediately gives an image of a delicate silk gown that is draped lightly over the curvature of her shapely body. And she moves with great ease and class. But don't be fooled by her feminine physical features as Juliette's contradicting inner features will introduce a perfect balance to her personal identity.  

 With a soul urge number 8, which is your inner cravings and urges, you are naturally constructed with many strong characteristics.  For one, your deep desire to lead and organize will help you set and accomplish many goals.  Your determination to achieve  power and status will guide you to a place of wealth and when you are in that place, I wish you will be grateful and maintain a compassionate and loving nature which will in turn provide you with unconditional happiness.  Just remember that whatever you decide to do, stay humble and place happiness (for yourself as well as others) as your priority.  

Thursdays

10/4/12

Thursdays

Despite the escalated back pain prohibiting me from long walks, the new mole-like extra skin growing on my neck, and every hour on the hour bathroom break in the middle of the night, thoughts of getting to see your precious face makes it all worth while.  As my body continues to develop outward with round plump toes, puffy fingers and a growing belly button that was once an innie, I continue to enjoy every second of feeling your rolls and kicks.   Even though  my weakened body and forgetful mind has taken the best of me, the last eight months of carrying you around has been the best time of my life.  

 My cravings have evolved from sour green apples dipped in heavy sea salt to various Vietnamese soup noodles to ice cream cones to Mc Donald's french fries accompanied by two containers of hot mustard, all of which I have enjoyed in a sparingly manner. Every day I load my body up with at least 3 cups of Silk Almond or Soy milk, a banana, an apple or strawberries, omega 3, and two prenatal pills just to ensure you're developing at a normal pace.  I no longer see food as food, I see it for what it's worth - its nutritional values.  I no longer eat for me, I now eat solely for you. 

Your daddy's attentive and caring nature has made this pregnancy that much more pleasurable for me.  Occasional ten-minute foot massages,  regular house chore activities, and feeding my serious cravings by allowing me to eat the entire large french fries from Mc Donald's all by myself has relieved me from some weird pregnancy symptoms. As I reach the end of this journey, all I can think about is the actual time of giving birth to you and how that thought has given me doubts of whether I can go through with it.  Along with all the prenatal classes are detailed stories I've heard from friends and family about the delivery process,  both has heighten my sense of uncertainty and lowered my confidence.  I'm not sure if your daddy has recognized my fear, but he has done a great job trying to lessen my fear of delivery by conveying to me how easy this all will be and how it will all happen quickly and painlessly.  He has also provided me with relaxing weekend get-aways to the desert and sweet endearing comments that makes me feel beautiful. without your daddy, I think this journey would not be as smooth.

Today we celebrate your 33rd weeks of gestation with a double order of Mc D's french fries and a movie called Baby Boom.  We talk about you all the time and we are counting down the days until we get to meet you. And to make sure you arrive to a clean house and a beautiful room filled with everything you need, we are working extra hard and fast to have a brand new wood floor replaced and installed before your arrive. We think you will really enjoy it.  This is just the first of many wonderful things we anticipate doing for you.

You are our first and the love we have in stored for you has magnified beyond measure.  We love you dearly and will sacrifice everything for you.  

See you in roughly seven weeks!